tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9026484337051027793.post8275467337536766221..comments2008-04-17T09:42:13.956-04:00Andyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14309605333128481208andy@savingtoinvest.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9026484337051027793.post-62163915640740866732008-04-17T09:42:13.956-04:002008-04-17T09:42:13.956-04:00From the <A HREF="http://www.dedicated2financialfreedom.com/2008/04/did-you-file-for-divorce.html" REL="nofollow"> Dedicated to Financial Freedom <BR/></A> blog here is a really good point related to this post:<BR/><BR/>For young folks, remember we all struggle with money in the beginning. It is never easy merging finances and establishing security. When a money struggle comes up, as it will, stop and remind yourself of:<BR/><BR/><BR/>One thing you loved about your spouse when you first met.<BR/>One thing your spouse does for you daily that you may take for granted.<BR/>One thing you are proud of your spouse about.<BR/>One thing you admire about your spouse.<BR/>The thing is, change your focus from the problem or issue at hand and instead look at the good. <BR/><BR/>Even if you are arguing. Think of that one thing. And for no reason at all - mention it, instead of a retaliation in the argument.<BR/><BR/>Then Laugh - as you both see how that didn't even fit into the current argument.<BR/><BR/>I am recommend you read the entire post.Andyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14309605333128481208noreply@blogger.com